“There fore each of you must put off falsehood and speak truthfully to his neighbor, for we are all members of one body- Ephesians 4:25. It is one thing to have loved and lost. it is another thing to have loved and been lied to.”
“…As soon as someone is sure that dating is not going where another person thinks or hopes that it is, that person has a responsibility to tell the other one clearly and honestly.”
These quotes clearly state the cause of a lot of hurt I have seen take place in the lives of those around me. Being honest with yourself and expecting honesty out of other people is foundational to relationship.